Build-a-Bear After Dark, Dua Lipa, and the Most Midwestern of Sayings
Ope! We’re back with a grab bag of questions: What does “After Dark” mean to you? How does one explain what consulting is? Are you signed up for Dua Lipa’s newsletter? What does it mean to actually *build* a bear? All this and more in your ears now!
Ope! We’re back with a grab bag of questions: What does “After Dark” mean to you? How does one explain what consulting is? Are you signed up for Dua Lipa’s newsletter? What does it mean to actually *build* a bear? All this and more in your ears now!
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For some discomfitting Build-a-Bear products for adults, enter The Bear Cave. For other “but what does it MEAN?” After Dark content, check out National Parks After Dark and this edition of Emily Henry’s Book Lovers.
Check out this YouTube video from Charlie Berens for on ope usage and Midwest vs. Everybody’s great ope merch. Also: on the rise of the Midwestern vibe.
Takeaways re: "A ‘Landmark’ as Women Will Coach Against Each Other in Men’s Soccer," which also made us think about this episode of Throwing Fits.
Join us in subscribing to Dua Lipa’s newsletter Service95 and listening to her podcast At Your Service.
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Resale Doyenne Kate Lindello's Thingies and Corn Nuts (Brought to ya by Noihsaf Bazaar!)
For this glorious ep, we partnered with Noihsaf Bazaar, the Duluth, Minnesota–based resale site curated by real people with excellent taste. Wow, how excited we are to talk secondhand shopping and Thingies with the very in-the-know founder Kate Lindello…and we’ll also take this (any?) opportunity to go nuts for corn nuts.
For this glorious ep, we partnered with Noihsaf Bazaar, the Duluth, Minnesota–based resale site curated by real people with excellent taste. Wow, how excited we are to talk secondhand shopping and Thingies with the very in-the-know founder Kate Lindello…and we’ll also take this (any?) opportunity to go nuts for corn nuts.
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Kate’s Thingies include Monastery Attar Concentrate (perhaps start with—or gift—the discovery kit), Tibi Style Class, the Dik-Dik from Matek (which makes us think of dickey situations from Nanamica and Mijeong Park), Better Things, Peter Witrak’s mobiles, the wool cloud from Scarf Shop, and, of course, Minnesota in general (and Grandma’s Marathon specifically).
Hit us up at at 833-632-5463, podcast@athingortwohq.com, or @athingortwohq to let us know your dream Thingies guests, and for even more recommendations, try out a Secret Menu membership and join our Geneva.
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Gift Guide Part 2: Siblings, Kids, Colleagues, Friends, and Everyone Else
We’re wrapping up (heh) this year’s gift guides with ideas for siblings, kids, aunts and uncles, colleagues, and the randos in your life you wanna treat extra nice. Have holiday-shopping thoughts of your own you *need* to share? Join our shiny new Geneva and spread that intel!
We’re wrapping up (heh) this year’s gift guides with ideas for siblings, kids, aunts and uncles, colleagues, and the randos in your life you wanna treat extra nice. Have holiday-shopping thoughts of your own you *need* to share? Join our shiny new Geneva and spread that intel!
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Sisters!
For my sister and me because we both had/are having babies this year, and we are culturally christian literally only for the christmas cheer. Baby's first christmas holiday ornaments that aren't absolutely dreadful. So much cheesy stuff, doesn't have to be baby themed but looking for a cool way to commemorate.
Celina Mancurti monogrammed Christmas stockings or one-of-a-kind ones from Pyschic Outlaw
Step-sister; 18 and just got engaged. Likes to hunt. We are quite different.
Yeti something! Various of the tumblers are customizable.
My sister who is a palliative care nurse with a broadway and true crime obsession
Brothers!
25-year-old brother, aspirational and practicing writer/actor/director, v into self-improvement (Tim Ferriss vibes), not into receiving gifts, would rather just buy what he wants when he wants, the curveball is he did say I could make him some art or buy him some art as apartment decor.
Art from Kneeland Co.
Early 20s brothers who still live at home.
Solid Wiggles, which now ships on Gold Belly
Sons!
25 year old son who buys the nicer things because they last, but who is also a minimalist.
Something from Labour & Wait or Puebco
Kids and Teens!
5-year-old who bounces off the walls and loves telling stories and recapping movies.
Haba doorway puppet theater or Wonder & Wise by Asweets playhouse
P.S.- We Made This: Super Fun Crafts That Grow Smarter + Happier Kids! by Erica Domesek
Lego MiniFigs
4-year-old who loves twirly dresses but mom's aesthetic is minimalist Brooklyn hipster.
All Small Co dress section (see: kiwi puff tutu dress and Lisa Says Gah x All Small Co puff sleeve dress)
Follies playhouses: Casa Azul set, The Bauhaus set, and Canvas set
13year old girl who claims she discovered preppy fashion and also loves hair product
Some TikTok-adjacent cooking things: DIY fortune cookie kit, The Dough Club mochi pancake and waffle mix, Takashi Murakami flower pancake pan
Aunts and Uncles!
A generous aunt whose language is giving other people gifts, but hard to buy for herself. She's a real estate agent, into some woo-y self-help stuff, and buys anything she needs right away. Have tried gift certificates for experiential things, but she's a busy lady and these often don't get redeemed.
An easy-to-redeem gift card for food that’s good for entertaining that comes to her. In NYC: Stocked by 3 Owls gift card. In LA: Lady & Larder. Nationwide: Beauty & the Board.
A flower subscription from Flowerbx or BloomsyBox
Fancy, pretty makeup like Dries Van Noten lipstick or perfume discovery set or Hermès lipstick or blush brush.
Colleagues!
Beloved senior colleague retiring: works in a museum, fun dog, rocks a funky necklace.
Coworkers/direct reports - ideally one idea for all. We are remote so a digital gift is ideal.
Substack subscription: To give a gift subscription, go to the homepage of the publication you’d like to give, then add “/gift” to the end of the URL.
Gjusta Goods herbed salt and Burlap & Barrel Zanzibar black peppercorns and Graza olive oil
Good-looking games like Wingspan, Azul, Lacorsa Grand Prix, and Casa Lopez Playing Cards.
My boss - owns a company that runs farmer markets. I’ve been with the company since may. He is currently starting a farm (he has been a farmer before). I am honestly not sure if he is a Christmas guy. He doesn't seem jazzed about it, idk. I know he cares enormously about sustainability, our food system, etc. but is also a business man. I have literally zero ideas for him. The additional piece is that we should get him a gift as a group (we are a pretty small team) but should I also get him a sep gift? No, right? Agh. I assume he's in his mid to late 40s. White. He has small kids that I haven't met.
Chocolate! ℅ Fossa, andSons Chocolatiers, and JST Chocolate
Donation to Black Farmer Fund paired with We Are Each Other's Harvest: Celebrating African American Farmers, Land, and Legacy by Natalie Baszile
Donation to Indigenous Food and Agriculture Initiative at University of Arkansas
Friends!
Best friend (36 female) loves wine and who my 5 yo thinks has chosen being an aunt as her career.
Special bottle from Walker Wines or Winebid
Cote wine club (also has a gift box option)
99 Bottles: A Black Sheep’s Guide to Life-Changing Wines by André Hueston Mack
An American in Provence: Art, Life and Photography by Jamie Beck
Female friend. Preppy/classic style. Likes fancy crafts (i.e., embroidery). Vegan. ~$40
The LL Bean tote with an in joke, catchphrase, embroidered
Vintage napkins with her initial or monogram on Etsy/eBay
Donation to animal sanctuary, like Farm Sactuary: “adopt” a goat named Jennifer or a donkey named Albert!
One of my best friends who has two boys under 4, is writing a thesis on how policing was formed out of military-imperialist activities, and is a great chef and baker (vegetarian and gluten-free). She did all our friends' wedding hair and makeup (me included) and took us to the Usher residency in Vegas for her 36th birthday. Lastly, and most importantly, her family is very wealthy (and generous - they have taken me on MANY incredible once-in-a-lifetime trips). Lastly, she is a BIG SHOPPER but still hunts for a deal. If you're wondering, I have already given her a custom Katie Kimmel pet vase.
The Last Course by Claudia Flemming (and Melissa Clark) + her new book Delectable (with Catherine Young)
Memor phone case or vase. They also sell jibbitz…er, shoe charms.
Recovering cool girl that doesn't want any more vinyl, just something useless + gorge.
Casa Veronica wall hook or candle holder
Everyone Else!
Brother's girlfriend who loves to read, has 2 cats, hates clutter, and many food allergies.
A donation to a local cat rescue organization
Gymnastics moms who plan trips, organize fundraisers and figure out carpool.
A bottle of something fun and a little surprising: Pipeno red ( with Papaya Reusables paper towels?),Forthave Spirits Red Aperitivo, non-alcoholic De Soi or Non or Proxies
Stationery / office-supply grab bags with finds from Yoseka Stationery, St. Louis Art Supply, or your local art store
Millennial who loves gardening and just started a high powered public job in the city.
Garden clogs from Gardenheir
For all our ideas, check out the archive of gift guides past—and keep those VMs and DMs coming at 833-632-5463 and @athingortwohq!
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Gift Guide Part 1: Partners, Parents, and Grandparents
It’s that time of year: the unveiling of the best gift guide in the podcast multiverse (we like to think). Part 1 stars your most charming—and trickiest—partners, parents, and grandparents. Next week, tune in for part 2, and, in the meantime, dig into the ol’ present-paralysis back catalogue.
It’s that time of year: the unveiling of the best gift guide in the podcast multiverse (we like to think). Part 1 stars your most charming—and trickiest—partners, parents, and grandparents. Next week, tune in for part 2, and, in the meantime, dig into the ol’ present-paralysis back catalogue.
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Husbands and Boyfriends!
42-year-old male. Recently started dating. Lawyer. Dad. World traveler. Cyclist. Just bought a new house. Moved back to the area (Philly) from upstate new york. photographer. reader. avid home cook. knows a Parisian knot. loves a good meal out. linen shirt wearer. loafers/boat shoes with shorts kind of guy. Enjoys wine and cocktails. catholic raised. city dweller. nerdy and thoughtful.
Photodom photography-themed Croc Jibbitz (Or really anything from Photodom—they have a cute gift guide on their site.)
Depths of Wikipedia tickets—NYC live show on 12/14 or Pittsburgh show on 12/16—or mug
Donation to TILT Institute for the Contemporary Image’s teen photo program in Philly
Husband who thinks he's outdoorsy but hasn't been camping in decades.
An actual camping weekend for next summer for him—a lot of places book a year or 9 months in advance. Recs: Hither Hills State Park and Assateague Island.
Donation to a local preservation organization, like, say, Save the Boundary Waters in MN
Husband who owns a ceramics company and has an eye for design.
Quark pegboard for his office or studio
Glass-blowing or leather-working class
Donation to People’s Pottery Project
Wives and Girlfriends!
Chronically ill wife with long-covid 2.5 years, doesn't like surprises, and in bed most days. loves sports, her friends, sitting in the park, and a great deal.
Nocs Provisions binoculars—they did a cool collab with the Native artist Amelia Winger-Bearskin that includes a strap
Vintage Masters golf gear, like this eighties ringer tee or this nineties hat)
Grandparents!
My 90-year-old grandma who refuses hearing aides because we don't visit enough and lives off of chipotle and chips.
My mostly home-bound grandma. Loves her tomato plants, vitamins, and Bob Barker.
If you have kids who she can share it with: Tomatoes for Neela by Padma Lakshmi
Chronically Chic pill organizer for her vitamins
Moms, Stepmoms, and Mothers-In-Law!
My mom is my white whale: needs nothing, no guilt in buying herself things she wants. Hates Christmas but derives joy from getting to complain about it. Good cook with a global palette (has all the gadgets she approves of and a long list of gadgets she does not endorse), news junkie, reads a lot. 61, both of my parents are retired, lives in the Pacific Northwest. Has taste but no style, hates clutter. Buys her clothes at Costco. Drinks nice wine that she also buys at Costco. Thinks art is stupid (I am an artist). She's very funny but she really leans into her brand of "antisocial curmudgeon." Successful gifts in the past were an NYtimes subscription and a fancy amaryllis bulb that she can text me about and shame it for blooming the wrong time of year. I try to veer towards consumables. She can also appreciate a handmade ceramic (functional, not decorative).
Yun Hai dried fruit—there’s a gift set
Roz Chast books, like What I Hate from A to Z, or Roz Chast wall art
Ikebana bowl & bulb from Utility Objects (could pair with fancy Japanese floral scissors)
My mom: She always asks for electronics and then ends up not being able to figure them out - or just doesn't use them. Want to get her something meaningful she will use.
Stepmother-in-law who is a spiritual counselor in Colorado. Obviously vegan.
Mother In Law - has more clothes than Nordstrom. Lives alone but her party line is always ringing.
Snacks for Dinner: Small Bites, Full Plates, Can't Lose by Lukas Volger
Custom sweater mending from Repair Shop
“Come Over” hat from Big Night
This one is for my five-foot-tall Italian American mother in law who has the thickest New York accent I've ever heard and could be described as "a tiny tank" in both stature and personality. she lives on Long Island and has access to everything; also tends to buy herself whatever she wants. so she's extremely hard to gift for. Whatever we give should probably be a physical gift vs. an experience. she is very judgmental and critical and not warm and fuzzy - but she has also had the difficult task of being a single parent to two kids, one of whom, my SIL, is living at home with significant physical and intellectual disabilities and who my MIL devotes all her time to - my SIL is so well taken care of. Looking for a gift that somehow recognizes/responds to all of this.
Ipsa, depending on part of Long Island
House cleaning from We Can Do It! – Si Se Puede Women's Cooperative (only operates in the five boroughs)
Marcella’s favorites gift set from Gustiamo
Mom and her husband just bought a boat. So something nautical or for small space living.
Personalized life saver buoy (U.S. Coast Guard-approved!)
Ingredients for a session dark ‘n stormy
Donation to The Ocean Cleanup
Mother-in-law who is the solo living grandparent to our 4-year-old and Buddhist priest who wants nothing but time with us. However, she is always a generous and thoughtful gift-giver so I can't just give her time. She is a tea lover but you can imagine how much tea I've already given her. She has a dog, loves the color periwinkle, and spends a lot of time on Zoom with her Sangha. She's forever 'writing a book' and loves getting on board with a system (for writing, for organizing, whatever). Help!
Rice xax candles for meditation
Mountain Valley Seed Company seed starter kit medicinal & herbal tea
Books to read with the grandkid: Jon J. Muth’s The Three Questions and Zen Shorts and Thich Nat Hanh’s Where is the Buddha? and A Handful of Quiet
Lena Corwin peace towel + matching kid-size one for the grandkid
Dads, Step-Dads, and Fathers-in-Law!
My dad, who is a retired chef (he still has knives from 40 years ago that he painstakingly cares for and finds most home kitchens to be very pretentious), can build/fix anything, loves to read non-fiction, and was suspended from Twitter frequently for tweeting insults at Donald Trump
The Dawn of Everything: A New History of Humanity by David Graeber and David Wengrow
Vintage RAADVAD bread slicer
Manufacture de Digoin vinegar jar to make his own vinegar
Donation to his local food bank
Mid 60's Frenchman who lives in Alsace with his wife and they travel a lot in their RV. they are also coming to the states next spring on a cross-country RV trip so I really think it should revolve around that. but more about him- he doesn't drink or smoke (some Frenchman he is) when we would drive to Florida once a year he would always be so excited to get to put on Latin American music on the radio. last year we got him a record player and records that I am 100% sure he doesn't use. he loves scrabble and card games, and he builds these badass card holders out of wood that he then does wood-burning personalized deco on. he has everything he wants and he wears lee jeans.
Camping chair from Cliq, Woods, or Blue Ridge Chair Works
Personalized leatherbound America: National Parks Atlas (from PBS shop)
Dad who enjoys perfecting logistics and explaining credit card point strategy.
Solgaard carry-on closet suitcase (there’s a MoMA collab!)
iPad keyboard + Valerie Constance monogrammed keyboard case
Former CIA and green beret but loves appletinis and bubble baths.
Avec x Atelier Saucier bundle of cocktail napkins + drink mixers + garnishes + recipes
I need help finding a gift for my picky and hard-working lawyer Dad. He loves outdoor adventures, Neil Young, doing puzzles with my Mom, and reading. My parents recently became part-time New Yorkers and keep buying art museum memberships. He loves to do research before purchasing anything and tends to buy whatever he wants. My Mom is a chronic shopper, so he usually has multiples of whatever he confesses to liking - Ugg slippers, Jack Black face wash, William Henry knives. He is a big guy and doesn’t fit into standard S-L sizes. He also doesn’t drink alcohol or coffee. In the past, he has disliked gifts that involve more labor (i.e. a smoker, a drone). I am not opposed to making a donation in his name, but my family’s love language is gifts and I would need to accompany a donation with something for him to unwrap. Per Claire’s request for dental records, he lost his front teeth as a kid playing Pee Wee football. He broke his fake set in a fight the day of his junior prom and attended the dance sans front teeth. He is so fun and deserves a great gift. Last year, I got him a Storyworth membership and he loved it (thanks for the recommendation!) I am hoping for a repeat success. Also, he is a January birthday, so I could use multiple ideas. Please help!
Birding Bob walk in Central Park, plus a donation or membership to Wild Bird Fund
Day at the spa at Governor’s Island
Fancy pajamas from P. Le Moult
Todd Snyder x New Era nubby Yankees cap (see also: Dodgers, Cubs, and Red Sox hats)
MoMA Design Store has great puzzle selection. Also: this Neil Young jigsaw puzzle and Different Puzzles, which are fun and *challenging*
Wisconsin Father in Law who likes sports. End of list.
Depending on his teams, gear from a previous stadium—signs and even seats that go up for sale
Donation to Special Olympics Wisconsin
For last year’s gift guides, head here and here.
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Gift Guide Round 3: Siblings, Teens, Co-Workers, Friends, and Grandparents!
Our third gift guide ep already?! We know. There’s so much ahead—and behind if you missed part 1 and part 2—but if you’re still on the present hunt, subscribe to Secret Menu for many more holiday-shopping thoughts ‘n feelings.
Our third gift guide ep already?! We know. There’s so much ahead—and behind if you missed part 1 and part 2—but if you’re still on the present hunt, subscribe to Secret Menu for many more holiday-shopping thoughts ‘n feelings.
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Kids and Teens!
Almost 14 year old girl Brooklyn kid
Art! Ideal Bookshelf 974: Feminists by Jane Mount, The Ten Largest, No. 2, Childhood, Group IV by Hilma af Klint, Krista Marie Young painting, and Amber Vittoria prints
The start of a charm bracelet, maybe with this Catbird Holy Cannoli charm
Lizzie Fortunato Little Candy DIY Kit (for a younger kid: Super Smalls or Susan Alexandra)
This Is What I Know About Art by Kimberly Drew
D C-T! by Joana Avillez and Molly Young
Donation to Girl Up
Monogrammed tech accessories from Leatherology
Angsty teenage nephews who already have everything
Art! Eye Test Chart by George Mayerle, Every Outdoor Basketball Court in Manhattan by Jenny Odell (paired with How to Do Nothing?), or something from Top Posters & Prints
Via the Public Announcement newsletter: Procure an iPod, load the iPod with music you love, give the iPod to the kid.
Snacks: Bokksu, Patagonia Provisions, Lani Halliday pop-tarts, Blondery Blondies, or Oreo ID
Black Futures by Kimberly Drew and Jenna Wortham
Youth to Power: Your Voice and How to Use it by Jamie Margolin
Donation to Canines for Disabled Kids
10 year old niece who is obsessed with Japan (Japan trip isn't in the budget)
Pen pal through Pen Friend Clubs of Japan (PFC)
Sanrio! Gudetama bank, Hello Kitty happy lunch box set, and all the stickers, pens, notebooks
Nephews/Godsons who already have so much stuff. They are 6 months (read: only interested in food but not really able to eat it) and 4. The 4 year old loves trucks, singing, Toy Story, and learning about everything. but he has all of the things! While I think donations are cool, I'm not really interested in that for a four year old who won't understand that i didn't forget to give him a gift.
Brothers and Brothers-in-Law!
My 35 yo brother who exclusively wears shirts from regattas, has horrible taste in women
Games: Wolfum checkers/chess set or Molkky
Brother who's living #vanlife
Fancy tinned fish: Big Night if you’re in NYC, Conserva Culture, and Fishwife
Westerlind for clothes
Alice Waters egg spoon or one from Eggspoon.com
Libro.fm subscription for audiobooks
Feeding America donation
Sisters and Sisters-in-Law!
Sister - has main character energy. Runs an apple cider vin business. Into funky style.
Custom perfume from Nova
Isabel Halley wine cups or dessert plates
Custom hand-painted sign from Cevallos Brothers or Olive Panter
My sister: hyper-intellectual, single, gay, social justice dr., autoimmune issues so stuck home.
Mary Roach books: Fuzz: When Nature Breaks the Law, Packing for Mars: The Curious Science of Life in the Void, and Grunt: The Curious Science of Humans at War
Sister in law who is mostly great and has very good taste but veryyy self absorbed, always has long term relationships but then doesn't commit because she doesn't believe in compromise, likes good food wine coffee, and also clothes (everlane/& other stories), likes to be luxe but in a slightly (not completely) subdued way.
Ceramic coffee set-up, like Anna Lebrija french press or Zizi Ceramics dripper set
Big Macs & Burgundy by Vanessa Price and Adam Laukuf
Susanne Kaufman bath oil or bath oil trio
My fiance's family does a gift exchange with the extended family with the idea that you can get a bigger/better gift for the one person instead of having to buy something smaller for everyone. I got assigned his cool cousin who lives in NYC. She's in her late 30's, got married 2 years ago, no kids, and she's a really successful lawyer. We only see her so often and she's usually on her computer keeping up with work when we do see her, so I don't have a great idea of her interests...besides they have a tiny dog that they love. I always love an experience gift for people, def something there with NYC? One other possibility is my fiance got her older sister in the gift exchange, so there's a possibility that we could do something that the both of them could enjoy together? Her sister lives in a Philly suburb and has a family with 2 kids so different point of life.
Card holder: OAD wallet or Bottega Veneta credit card holder
Flower Flash by Lewis Miller
Museum or botanical garden membership
Tickets to Westminster Kennel Club Dog Show (deadline is 11/29!)
Aunts, Uncles, Grandparents, and Other Adults You Know!
Next door neighbor, 94 year old Italian woman who loves the Pope and New England sports
Go up for Glory by Bill Russell
Novel Mart Italiano collection—a bolognese sweatshirt, a ravioli hat!
Grossy Pelosi pasta water mug (with homemade Italian Holiday cookies!)
Older curmudgeonly uncle with lots of stories and jokes. Cooks but scorns fancy equipment.
Made In cookware
Small Victories by Julia Turshen
Save Room for Pie by Roy Blount Jr.
Local food bank donation
My smart feminist ex-social worker grandma who likes G&Ts and is a hoarder
Woman Made: Great Women Designers by Jane Hall
Plan C or National Network of Abortion Funds donation
Friends!
29 y/o BFF who just got dumped and fired, she loves Rebecca Solnit, POOG, and yoga
Private yoga class with one of her fave instructors
Collective Wisdom by Grace Bonney
Start Where You Are or When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chödrön
Something creativity-focused: Gondola Pastels, POJ Studio waza kits, The F Series paint sticks, Studio Sundays art supplies, Art Life practice kits, and Unwind Studio needlepoint kits
Best friend! loves old furniture and travel and old churches and beauty, less than $100
The Furniture Bible: Everything You Need to Know to Identify, Restore & Care for Furniture by Christophe Pourny
Stained glass or glass-blowing workshop: Pressed Flowers Stained Glass at Urban Glass in NYC on 12/9
Miniature stained glass churches—so many good ones on Etsy, like this
Trendy-ish beauty service, like brow laminating
Co-Workers and Bosses!
My boss who is a die hard AKA sorority sister (same as Kamala Harris), v much part of the Bey-hive, and wears all of the hats (boss, mentor, counselor, mom, wife).
Drop the Ball by Tiffany Dufu
People I work with - design studio so they all already have access to nice things. Our team is small enough that the vibe is to give everyone something? Under $40
Custom Marmite or Sour Patch Kids
Cute food! Opopop, Omsom, Soul Chai, Cornbread26 madeleines, The Chai Box gift set, Gjusta marinated olive oil, and Batchworthy
Ali Forney Center donation
For last year’s gift guides, head here and here.
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Gift Guide Round 2: Extra Design-y Edition, with MoMA Design Store!
If you just CAN’T with the gifting stress, drama, and intrigue this year and are looking to do some one-stop shopping, well, welcome to our second gift guide of the season, in partnership with the glorious, aesthetically driven team over at MoMA Design Store. Use the code ATHINGORTWO online or in store for 10% off your purchase now through November 24 (fine print below)—and know that every purchase supports the museum's collection and education programs. Talk about a GWP!
If you just CAN’T with the gifting stress, drama, and intrigue this year and are looking to do some one-stop shopping, well, welcome to our second gift guide of the season, in partnership with the glorious, aesthetically driven team over at MoMA Design Store. Use the code ATHINGORTWO online or in store for 10% off your purchase now through November 24 (fine print below)—and know that every purchase supports the museum's collection and education programs. Talk about a GWP!
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Healthcare practitioners who I see regularly but don't know on a personal level
My new colleagues who I want to love me. Something cheap, cute, and maybe useful.
I have to buy gifts for approximately eight thousand kids. Is there anything that I could buy that all of them would like? They are various ages between 0-10 years old.
Dating for 3 mo by the time xmas is here. Wants to ride tandem bike. Dairy & nut free.
My husband who loves fancy Japanese mugs, Swedish menswear, and guitar pedals
90 year old Grandma who lives in Scottsdale. She loves golf, crafting, playing cards, shopping, and hot weather. She has a condo full of tons of stuff - she collects trinkets and has multiple collections of China, glassware, etc. so I avoid giving her something that's just an item that will sit on a shelf. She is sometimes lonely and really likes activities but is easily intimidated by things that seem too hard. I gave her a 500 piece puzzle last year and at first she thought she could never do it but she ended up finishing it and got it framed. She's the absolute cutest but also very set in her ways. I like to give her something that can be consumed or created so I don't add to clutter but she is very thrifty as a depression era woman and will savor things forever. Sometimes things like lotions or candles never end up getting used. She also loves jewlery and clothing. She walks to church every day in a sensible heel.
65+ crowd that have everything! Bring in the MOMA recs!
My brother and his stylist boyfriend who has intimidatingly good taste
FIL loves smoking meats, nice wine, and mansplaining the weather.
Dad who loves gadgets and has a home theatre with a projector
MIL likes soft things, needs for nothing
My mother who likes luxe things but doesn't like it when we overspend.
My veteran sister who only wears zip off pants & carves wood in her free time.
13-year old girl who's very creative and into music
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Gift Guide Round 1: Moms, Dads, and Significant (or Formerly Significant) Others
It’s gift-guide season around these parts, and here we are with the first of three—three!—installments to help you along with the hardest-to-shop-for people in your life (hopefully). If you need more ideas, subscribing to Secret Menu might be just the answer.
It’s gift-guide season around these parts, and here we are with the first of three—three!—installments to help you along with the hardest-to-shop-for people in your life (hopefully). If you need more ideas, subscribing to Secret Menu might be just the answer.
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Moms and Mothers-in-Law!
Single mom by choice to an amazing little girl. Since it's just the two of us and she's a toddler, I need to help her buy her a gift for me. I realize that buying a gift for one's self shouldn't be difficult but I'm saving to buy us a condo and this will be my one quality and/or impractical spend for the foreseeable future. So I want to make it count and I'd love your help. I am willing to spend up to $400.00. I appreciate smart function in design and I have lost zero baby weight, so anything that involves sizing has the potential to make me cry, which feels like it would defeat the purpose. I work about 75 hours a week and am currently doing so remotely. Would love to hear your thoughts. Thanks!
Fused bracelet like a Fewer Finer Eternal Bracelet or an Ochre Objects Permanence one
Birthstone earrings—maybe one of your birthstone and one of hers. White/Space Francesca studs are sold as solos.
Earrings/necklace you could build on each year: Scosha charms, Lizzie Fortunato mood necklace with an alphabet charm, and Fewer Finer vintage charms
A break! A one-night staycation or spa day
76 yo mom, super practical, can't throw stuff away, just lost her husband of 60+ years.
Organizing accessories: Hay, Open Spaces, and Yamazaki Home
Mending kit: Merchant & Mills Rapid Repair Kit and Purl Soho Cotton Mending Thread
Yuns Hardware gift certificate
Monthly flower delivery—you can make any bouquet a subscription with Farmgirl Flowers
Miriam Toews novel: Fight Night or Women Talking
Donation to her local library
My new step mom who has very good taste and loves thrifting
Vintage calendar from 2011, 2005, 1994, 1983, 1977, 1966, 1955, 1949, 1938, or 1927
Back issues of a favorite magazine—Gourmet?
The House that Pinterest Built by Diane Keaton
Vintage piece from French Larkspur or One Day in France
Do thrifting for her—splatterware, jadeite, or Fiestaware?
Frumpy MIL that you can't stand
Ember mug (now a travel one, too)
Mutual aid org
My southern mom who thinks NYC made me snobby
Cookbooks by Southern female chef: Black, White, and the Grey by Mashama Bailey and John O. Morisano and Mosquito Supper Club by Melissa M. Martin
These Precious Days by Ann Patchett
Dads and Fathers-in-Law!
My dad! A very intelligent man. Passionate about baseball but has season tickets. Very covid cautious. Has read all books. Doesn't drink. Isn't handy (no tools). Plays scrabble and has all the boards, no other games. Very fashion apathetic and I always get him clothes. Likes to bike but has a very nice bike and all accessories. Has snow shovel service. Really only cares about his grandkids but spends tons of time with them. Still works (lawyer) and tends to buy anything he needs which is very little! Always a conumdrum.
Equal Justice Initiative donation
Argo attachment for front of bike to haul grandkids (group gift potential)
Non-alcoholic bevs: Ghia, Non, Acid League Wine Proxies, Hella Cocktail Bitters & Soda variety pack, Avec
Black Champions in Cycling by Marlon Moncrieffe
My dad! Buys himself everything he needs, likes rock and roll bios and mushrooming. and wine!
How to Change Your Mind: What the New Science of Psychedelics Teaches Us about Consciousness, Dying, Addiction, Depression, and Transcendence by Michael Pollan
A Really Good Day: How Microdosing Made a Mega Difference in My Mood, My Marriage and My Life by Ayelet Waldman (paired with this Yelp review??)
Acid for the Children by Flea and donation to Silverlake Conservatory of Music
FIL: widower, engineer, spotless home, not into design, kinda into fitness & cooking
Spices: Burlap & Barrel and Diaspora Co.
Everyone's Table: Global Recipes for Modern Health by Gregory Gourdet & JJ Goode
The Essential New York Times Cookbook: The Recipes of Record (Anniversary)
Andree Jardin duster and/or Saint Olio cleaning spray and room spray
Engineers without Borders donation
Romantic Partners (and Former Ones)!
A NFT-obsessed new dad who wants to be a lumberjack but actually buys Aimee Leon Dore
Blockchain for Babies (to read to the kid!)
Woodworking classes: Makeville Studio in Brooklyn or LA Woodshop in L.A.
I need help with my 49-year-old, male, partner. He's a commercial architect, but is super judgey about architect stuff. He constantly scrolls Zillow and vintage car sites. He drinks bourbon, but doesn't want whisky stones and we have an excellent set of glasses. He likes luxury, but won't wear a logo ever. He loves art - folk, sculpture, modern (sometimes the weirder the better) and he created about half the pieces in our house. We live in Atlanta, watch garbage TV and eat/cook good food. Help!
Cameo from garbage TV cast member announcing an experiential gift
The materials for a Self Assembly project
Do It Yourself by Thomas Barnthaler
Old soul male significant other who manages to find all the wilderness in nyc (birding in prospect park, surfing in the rockaways) in his 20s.
Matuse wetsuit—or gloves or booties
Merch (or sauna time or a haircut) from Almeda Club, a cute Rockaways surf shop
Overnight stay in the Rockaways at The Rockaway Hotel or the vintage 1963 Shasta camper on Hipcamp
Trip to Mohonk Mountain House (also does daypasses)
Field Guide to the Neighborhood Birds of New York City by Leslie Day
Donation to Laru Beya Collective
Girlfriend who is super Catholic but also super woo and into crystals, energy, etc.
Cool cross necklace from Pamela Love, Chan Luu, or Erica Weiner (coral, turquoise, etc.!)
Spur—if there’s a crystal that means something to her, get it made into jewelry!
Priestdaddy by Patricia Lockwood
Donation to DignityUSA
My ex husband who doesn't deserve a gift but we share a daughter together
Something for them to do together—tickets to a basketball game or a museum, a video game, etc.
A friend who I had a thing with (years ago) and has a jealous girlfriend
Nothing! This person does not need a gift from you!
If you want to win her over, something consumable for them: Westbourne snacks, Zingerman’s noodle kugel, Pizzeria Bianco pizzas, Loria Stern something, or Blackberry Farm biscuits three ways
For last year’s gift guides, head here and here.
Keep those VMs and DMs coming at 833-632-5463 and @athingortwohq!
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Online Shopping Tricks ‘n Tips...and Ending Vacation Early
How do we wrap up vacation? How do we shop for clothes on the internet? Well!
How do we wrap up vacation? How do we shop for clothes on the internet? Well!
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The Atlantic also says you should come home from vacation a day early in this piece about 8 rules for a happy vacation.
Hit us with your online shopping hacks at @athingortwohq, podcast@athingortwohq.com, and 833-632-5463. And get more of ours from Secret Menu.
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The Idea of You Casting Drama and a Friendship Deep-Dive
If you’ve ever had questions about our (19 years of!) friendship, wade on into this episode, which was sparked by the heartwarmingly genius Summer of Friendship series from Call Your Girlfriend. And if you’ve ever wondered about our thoughts on making The Idea of You book into a movie...well, that too!
If you’ve ever had questions about our (19 years of!) friendship, wade on into this episode, which was sparked by the heartwarmingly genius Summer of Friendship series from Call Your Girlfriend. And if you’ve ever wondered about our thoughts on making The Idea of You book into a movie...well, that too!
The linkage:
More on The Idea of You’s rabid following ℅ Michelle Ruiz for Vogue.
People, watch Friends with Kids! Somehow related: It was Patrick Dempsey who was (at one point) married to the makeup artist, Jillian Fink.
Do you want access to TIOY Facebook group? Have at it.
The author Robinne Lee cites her original inspiration for Solene as Leticia Herrera, the founder of Casa Tua hotels.
Jenna Wortham’s New York Times Magazine piece about the movie Zola and recasting pressure via Twitter.
Tune into the Summer of Friendship eps of Call Your Girlfriend! Our chat about our relationship is part of that joyful series.
Send all of your thoughts and feelings to @athingortwohq, podcast@athingortwohq.com, and 833-632-5463. We’ll send you more of ours if you sign up for Secret Menu.
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Solving Those Sleep, Energy, & Sex-Drive Mysteries with Base Founder Lola Priego
How many questions do we have for Lola Priego, the founder of the innovative at-home lab-testing company Base? So many that we partnered with the company to bring you all this ep and to get a better understanding of how the medical sector is evolving, the common findings the Base team is seeing in tests, and what factors that might be contributing to bleh energy, sex drive, and sleep—you know, those weirdly hard-to-solve health gripes. Also, re: ZZZs: Let’s kick things off with a talk about pajama habits, shall we??
How many questions do we have for Lola Priego, the founder of the innovative at-home lab-testing company Base? So many that we partnered with the company to bring you all this ep and to get a better understanding of how the medical sector is evolving, the common findings the Base team is seeing in tests, and what factors that might be contributing to bleh energy, sex drive, and sleep—you know, those weirdly hard-to-solve health gripes. Also, re: ZZZs: Let’s kick things off with a talk about pajama habits, shall we??
The linkage:
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This Base quiz could prove very useful, whether you opt to join or not.
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Thingies! And Famous Birthdays!
One thing we’re newly obsessed with: the wide, weird world of FamousBirthdays.com. Nine finds we’re oldly obsessed with and very ready to discuss: Welcome to the latest installment of Thingies, our unstoppable, un-top-able category faves.
One thing we’re newly obsessed with: the wide, weird world of FamousBirthdays.com. Nine finds we’re oldly obsessed with and very ready to discuss: Welcome to the latest installment of Thingies, our unstoppable, un-top-able category faves.
The linkage:
Do you know FamousBirthdays.com? Do you know Courier magazine?! Well, there’s a great story about the former in the latter.
Today’s Thingies!!! New Skin Liquid Bandage, Chef’s Choice Diamond Hone Knife Sharpener, Temp Tee Whipped Cream Cheese, D.S. & Durga Auto Fragrances (sold as a set too—and, related, ones from P. F. Candle Co.), Norma Kamali Super Low Back Mio, Hollywood Fashion Secrets Silicone Coverups, Nailtiques Formula 2, Jade Yoga Harmony Mat, and (bonus?) Bug Bite Thing (plus, somehow related, Oh Crap! Potty Training).
Previous Thingies eps one and two should you want to catch up.
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Baby Hummingbirds and Lauren Chan on Fashion Right Now and Size-Inclusivity
Are you ready to be charmed? Great, because today we’re discussing baby hummingbirds and hanging with Lauren Chan, who’s a size-inclusive fashion advocate, a model, and the founder-slash-CEO of Henning, which makes luxury, oh-so-cool womenswear in sizes 12 to 24. Soon, she’ll be a TikTok star, too—we have no doubt.
Are you ready to be charmed? Great, because today we’re discussing baby hummingbirds and hanging with Lauren Chan, who’s a size-inclusive fashion advocate, a model, and the founder-slash-CEO of Henning, which makes luxury, oh-so-cool womenswear in sizes 12 to 24. Soon, she’ll be a TikTok star, too—we have no doubt.
The linkage:
Related to Erica’s How to Do Nothing-esque baby hummingbird *experience*: this glorious Jamie Beck ridiculousness, the Minnesota State Fair’s CHS Miracle of Birth Center, this Travel + Leisure story “The World's Best Places to See Baby Animals,” David Schwimmer on Marcel the monkey, and a taste of hummingbird TikTok.
Other fashion companies that Lauren admires: Wray, Tamara Malas, Eileen Fisher, and Mara Hoffman.
What’s Lauren wearing? So glad you asked. For jeans and jorts, Citizens of Humanity (in size 33) and Agolde (in size 33 or 34). Speaking of shorts: Henning bike shorts, Aerie sweat shorts, and WSLY nylon shorts from Bandier. Up top: nostalgic T-shirts from Poshmark and flowy button-downs from Poshmark and her love, The RealReal.
Her home go-tos (see also: this Domino feature styled by Elaina Sullivan): Chairish, Saatchi Art, and Craigslist.
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Demystifying CBD with Caliper Co-Founder Jeremy Goldstein
To anyone who’s asked “Um, can y’all dig deeper into CBD?” and/or “Does that stuff actually work?” we bring you an episode full of (extremely interesting!) nitty-grittiness on cannabinoids. We’ve partnered with the impressive team over at Caliper for this conversation with our old pal Jeremy Goldstein to talk science, credibility, regulation, and, yes, hype. If this has you itching to try Caliper, use the code ATHINGORTWO for 20% off your first order.
To anyone who’s asked “Um, can y’all dig deeper into CBD?” and/or “Does that stuff actually work?” we bring you an episode full of (extremely interesting!) nitty-grittiness on cannabinoids. We’ve partnered with the impressive team over at Caliper for this conversation with our old pal Jeremy Goldstein to talk science, credibility, regulation, and, yes, hype. If this has you itching to try Caliper, use the code ATHINGORTWO for 20% off your first order.
The linkage:
More on drug-sniffing K-9 retirees.
Deeper-dives into how Caliper approaches regulation and clinical trials.
If you’re interested in the microdose THC company Jeremy and his co-founder Justin Singer started first, check out the line of Ripple products.
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Flea and Wedding Registries (Slash Stuff We Want in Our Kitchens Forever)
What would we register for if we were getting married sometime soon? What would we buy if we just really wanted a tablecloth or new drinking glasses? Oh, we have thoughts. And, speaking of wish lists, how exactly do we get our hands on Flea’s Bees honey from the Red Hot Chili Peppers bassist?
What would we register for if we were getting married sometime soon? What would we buy if we just really wanted a tablecloth or new drinking glasses? Oh, we have thoughts. And, speaking of wish lists, how exactly do we get our hands on Flea’s Bees honey from the Red Hot Chili Peppers bassist?
The linkage:
For more on Flea (because who doesn’t want more on Flea?): Dave Grohl’s doc What Drives Us, this GQ article about his relationship with the streetwear designer Melody Ehsani, his memoir Acid for the Children, a video of him playing guitar with Koko, a really moving essay for TIME about his opioid addiction, the org he started Silverlake Conservatory of Music, and, finally, Flea’s Bees. Also, of course, his Instagram and Twitter.
Picks for wedding registries—and just, like, living our best dining lives—coming right up! For the master, master list, sign up for Secret Menu and dive on in.
Flatware: Almoco Flatware, Mono Ring Cutlery, Sabre Bistrot Flatware, and Georg Jensen New York.
Dishes: Heath Ceramics, Dansk, Jono Pandolfi, and Pomelo Casa.
Cloth napkins, tablecloths, and placemats: Society of Wanderers, Lewis, Thompson Street Studio, and Ames for Goodee.
Wine glasses: Fferrone and Estelle Colored Glass.
Drinking glasses: Borosil Simple Glass Tumblers, Bormioli Rocco Stackable Bodega Glasses, and Duralex Picardie Glasses in clear or color or with the carafe.
Cutting and serving boards: Farmhouse Pottery Dipped Clay Plate, Fort Standard Walnut Plank, and Le Regal French Oak Serving Boards.
You know we want to hear from you. Get us at @athingortwohq, podcast@athingortwohq.com, and 833-632-5463.
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Public Affluence and Atoosa Rubenstein Talking Grown-Up Stuff
Longtime hero and first-time guest Atoosa Rubenstein is our plus-one today, and, whoa, is she delivering SO MUCH wisdom—you know, exactly the sort of stuff she was known for as the editor of CosmoGIRL! And Seventeen, but now built for adults. (Related: You’ve gotta sign up for her newsletter Atoosa Unedited.) Before we get into it, though, we need to talk about a term that’s as useful as it is aspirational: public affluence.
Longtime hero and first-time guest Atoosa Rubenstein is our plus-one today, and, whoa, is she delivering SO MUCH wisdom—you know, exactly the sort of stuff she was known for as the editor of CosmoGIRL! And Seventeen, but now built for adults. (Related: You’ve gotta sign up for her newsletter Atoosa Unedited.) Before we get into it, though, we need to talk about a term that’s as useful as it is aspirational: public affluence.
The linkage:
Public affluence further reading: “Every Child on Their Own Trampoline” by Jeremy Williams and the 1958 book The Affluent Society by John Kenneth Galbraith.
More on the Buy Nothing Project. See also: this post and this one from Reading My Tea Leaves.
Sign up for Atoosa Unedited, Atoosa Rubenstein’s newsletter—you want in on this!—and read the breakup installment we reference. Oh, follow the Atoosa Unedited Instagram, too.
Tiny, baby Erica interviewing Atoosa in 2004 for Roadtrip Nation.
Some Atoosa go-tos: It Didn’t Start With You by Mark Wolynn, Goop, Armchair Expert, SmartLess, Tara Brach, and Page Six.
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A Snack Attack and Claire’s New Beauty Go-Tos
It’s testing central ‘round these parts. First, we dig into snacks (and fall hard for a fancy GF pop-tart comp), and then Claire shares the beauty products that have won her over recently. Obviously both sunless tanner and deep conditioner make a showing.
It’s testing central ‘round these parts. First, we dig into snacks (and fall hard for a fancy GF pop-tart comp), and then Claire shares the beauty products that have won her over recently. Obviously both sunless tanner and deep conditioner make a showing.
The linkage:
What are we munching? Well! Wild Fruits Jam Tarts, 12tides Puffed Kelp Chips, and Pipcorn Jalapeño Cheddar Crunchies, since you asked.
Claire’s latest hair favorites: Bread Beauty Supply Hair Mask Deep Conditioner, Hairstory New Wash, Christophe Robin Brightening Shampoo, and Briogeo Scalp Revival Stimulating Massager.
Her new go-to skin stuff: Muri Lelu Mauvaise Herbe Indica Oil, Sunday Riley Good Genes, Consonant Hydrextreme Sheet Mask, St. Tropez Self Tan Purity Bronzing Water Face Mist, Tata Harper Creme Riche Moisturizer, and Diana Ralys Melt Away Oil Cleanser.
And two make-up things that made the cut: Artis Brush (Oval 6) and KVD Beauty Tattoo Liner.
Send your thoughts on any ‘n all of this to @athingortwohq, podcast@athingortwohq.com, and 833-632-5463. For a whole lot more where this came from, check out Secret Menu.
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Opening the Windows and Making Time for Creativity
Feel that cross-breeze? Hard for us to tell if it’s fresh air or creative energy, to be honest. But much more on both ahead...
Feel that cross-breeze? Hard for us to tell if it’s fresh air or creative energy, to be honest. But much more on both ahead...
The linkage:
The opening the windows tweet that really spoke to us both.
The fan Claire recently, aspirationally acquired: this Zonix one in white.
You know Secret Menu? Because you should.
For some context around our creativity check-in, dive into our perfectionism ep (and maybe Big Magic?).
This NYT piece on future block!
Mary H.K. Choi inspired Erica’s writing approach, and Gina Hamadey and her new book I Want to Thank You helped shape Claire’s sketching routine.
Keep the feedback coming! @athingortwohq, podcast@athingortwohq.com, and 833-632-5463.
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Eating Less Meat and Drinking Less Booze
If you’ve been thinking more about your meat and/or alcohol consumption—or would like to—pull up a chair and dig in. And, as always, feel free to drop us voicemail at 833-632-5463. Hungry for your thoughts.
If you’ve been thinking more about your meat and/or alcohol consumption—or would like to—pull up a chair and dig in. And, as always, feel free to drop us voicemail at 833-632-5463. Hungry for your thoughts.
The linkage:
Our less-meat news items: Epicurious on not publishing any (new) recipes with beef, Eleven Madison Park’s return with a vegan menu, and Taco Bell’s Cravetarian Taco.
One interesting beef source: Butter Meat Co.
Us-approved meat alts, should you want ‘em: Impossible (burgers with Omsom marinades, Helen Rosner’s Roberto soup, hard-shell tacos with Spicewalla seasonings), Trader Joe’s soy chorizo (for tacos, eggs, pastas with chickpeas!), and Lightlife Smart Deli Bologna for sandwiches.
The MSG essay by Shaad D'Souza (from Bon Appétit, not Eater—oops). Related: @know_msg, Red Boat salt, and Momofuku tamari.
The book name-checked by Chrissy Teigen about women + sobriety: Quit Like a Woman: The Radical Choice to Not Drink in a Culture Obsessed with Alcohol by Holly Whitaker, founder of the recovery program Tempest.
A great installment of the Quartz Obsessions newsletter about sober-curiosity.
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Checking in With Amanda Hesser and Miffy, Hello Kitty’s Frenemy
Just a podcast ep featuring two old pals: Miffy, chic cartoon rabbit, and Amanda Hesser, icon, inspiration, and co-founder of Food52, the site you’ve (we’ve) visited just a few thousand times.
Just a podcast ep featuring two old pals: Miffy, chic cartoon rabbit, and Amanda Hesser, icon, inspiration, and co-founder of Food52, the site you’ve (we’ve) visited just a few thousand times.
The linkage:
First, some Miffy merch: this light that Erica and Cam own, these napkins, this corduroy stuffed animal, and this Converse collab.
A 2008 Daily Telegraph profile of Dick Bruna, the creator of Miffy.
The rumored Taylor Swift and Katy Perry collaboration.
Our Amanda Hesser fandom runs deep! We love all things Food52, of course, but we’ve been A.H. diehards since we read Cooking for Mr. Latte in the early aughts.
A few Amanda kitchen recs: Bien Cuit sourdough starter, Ortwo pepper grinder, and JK Adams two-tiered lazy susan.
The go-to recipe when Amanda’s kids are cooking: Zuni's Pasta with Preserved Tuna.
For deep-diving on Amanda and her co-founder Merrill Stubbs, check out our book Work Wife, and for more on Amanda’s backstory and business approach, check out this recent ep of How I Built This.
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Things We Want to Leave Behind and How to Start a Running Routine
Less running around to meetings, more running routines! If this ep had a mantra, that would be it.
Less running around to meetings, more running routines! If this ep had a mantra, that would be it.
The linkage:
Less running around to meetings, more running routines! If this ep had a mantra, that would be it.
Other running and running-adjacent content: the C25K app, our podcast ep with Coach Bennett, Edith Zimmerman’s Drawing Links newsletter, and Nikki Ogunnaike and Aminatou Sow on IG.
Some “things we’re over” further reading: A BBC article on air travel + the environment, a tweet about overscheduled days, and a NYT article about disability and virtual accommodations.
We want/need your thoughts at @athingortwohq, podcast@athingortwohq.com, and 833-632-5463! And, if you want more of our thoughts—on running and plenty more—come get ‘em at Secret Menu.
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